Quick note before I dive in: registration for Sacred Self-Trust is open, and there are only twelve seats. Apply here.  Ok! Back to the story. This past spring I went to the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium. I always love seeing the big names in my field talk about where their curiosity has led t...

I hear versions of these two sentences constantly. "When he's upset with me or disappointed in me, I can't tolerate it. I'll just do whatever I have to do to make sure he's not angry with me." "I know what my partner likes, so I just make sure to arrange things to her liking. That way there's no ...